Well, here I am after a serious amount of time off from writing. Honestly, I haven't been too busy--I have just been neglectful. Summer is nearly over, and for a teacher (as I am), that's like an impending death of some sort. I can feel the end, looming over my head, and it unmotivates me. I have things to do! But instead, I find people to argue with on
Slate over silly subjects like whether Scientology is a cult or not. Yeah, that's fun and all, until a bunch of idiots with poor grammar start posting their pointless points. . .
Today is my birthday.
Big whoop, you say. I say that, too. My husband and daughter, both of whom called, are in the Army Reserve and are off doing their annual Army Reserve duties, so I am alone. My son is around and will stop by later to have a piece of the birthday cheese cake I am baking for myself, as we speak. He always entertains me and cheers me up--sometimes to the point where I hurt from laughing. I have received a couple of perfunctory phone calls from other family members feeling obligated to remember me on "my day." It's not that I'm not loved, I truly believe. It's just that maybe birthdays really aren't all that important except to the person that is having them, especially when that person has become an adult.
Now, I hope I am not coming across as pouty or depressed. On the contrary. I am
amused by one aspect of this birthday, most certainly. And that is because I received more birthday greetings from non-family/friends, including cards from an insurance company, my chiropractor, and the school district where I teach. The most amusing part about it is how most of them were signed:
Best wishes from the office of . . . So in essence, I received most of my birthday greetings from buildings.
The day is not over. The cheesecake is nearly done. And I do expect at least one more call from a brother upon whom it will dawn that it is his kid sister's big day today. If he doesn't call, well, I just might stop baking him cookies for HIS birthday. Or I might just send him a card that reads
from the House of Jenny. That'd teach him . . .